Attendance / Vetting
RSVP
Parties are limited to first 50 RSVP'ers of our choosing. This means, if you do not receive a personal PM with invite details, (which you only get if they RSVP to the event) then you cannot attend. I do not do +1. No profile, no RSVP, no personal PM, no attendance.
Vetting
If you want to be vetted, please attend one of our munches or another party we are in attendance at as listed on the Events page. While this may not guarantee an invite, it is how you start. Keep in mind, this is a private home...would you let strangers into your home? :)
POC's WELCOME!!!! Not sure what a 'POC' is, For Citadel of Kink, it means People of Character. That's right folks, CoK does not exclude or include. I will not be calling out any special groups because all are equal and welcome. We are all kinksters so I will not participate in any type of tribalism. That means it doesn't matter if you are black/white/green/purple, binary/non-binary/trinary/quadratic, or if you identify as LGBTQABCXYZ%^<& or even as a bobcat or piece of paper. You are are either kinky or not. No form of discrimination is welcomed and even hints of being anything other than a decent human being will result in a ban.
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character. --Martin Luther King, Jr.
What to Bring?
Bring yourself of course, a dish to share as this is a potluck and any toys, safety materials, blankets or towels (I have a limited supply), etc.
What not to bring?
Drugs, anyone under 18, bad attitude....DRAMA OF ANY KIND!
What to expect?
A blasty blast with like-minded individuals. Possibly learning a few new things. Open minded people. Non-judgmental people. It's a kink party....do I need to keep going?
Parking
HOA's suck!!! As such, all cars are towed after 10PM. Yes, ALL cars. Yes, We have tried to fight the system without success. As such, we highly encourage people to uber/lyft, carpool, etc. Parking is available on public streets and at the clubhouse for free, but it is a bit of a walk. There are about 20+ spots there. There will be a shuttle in the beginning of the night and end for people who have to park further out. Details will be in the official invite you will receive via PM.
Payment/Cost
Every party for years has been free and that cost has added up. I never charged for alcohol and I have done a lot of upgrades, and other party related stuff. As such, there is a voluntary donation for entry to my party now and that is to offset the costs of equipment, supplies, food and alcohol. The benefit to this for you is you do not have to bring anything and food/drink are included. So technically, it is the same cost...just instead of you having to spend your time to go and get a dish and come to a party with 2 real entrees and 26 veggie platters, now I ensure real food is available :)